This was an email from a guy…
Can she ever forgive me?
I had an affair a year ago. It was a stupid office romance thing, we were going through a dull period in our relationship, and it happened. I told my wife about it, after she repeatedly asked me about this other girl. It’s like she already knew something so I told her..
We ended up sort of working through it, I know I hurt her..bad. Me and my wife are totally together, but things aren’t the same, there’s a coolness between us.. I’m starting to wonder some things.
Will she ever truly forgive and forget? Was she cheating also and that’s why she didn’t leave me? Is she cheating now?
I almost feel like this whole thing is like an egg-shell. Once broken you can never truly put it back together again.
Would I be better off leaving her, and starting fresh because I’m not going to feel guilty for the next 25 years!