Kink 101
There’s been a lot of heavy topics going on, so I thought I’d *ahem* liven things up a bit. So you or your partner is curious, you want to refresh things up in bed, or you just don’t know why the hell anyone would want to do it. I’m going to try to explain the
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The one that got away- just texted me. Text back?
Hey guysneedhelp, here’s my situation. I’m engaged and the wedding is next summer. I got a text earlier today from my ex girlfriend, who to me has always been the one that got away. I haven’t heard from this chick in 5 years. I have thought about her every day since then. We broke up
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Why do girls like to call it “making love”?
Whats the big deal with girls always calling it making love? Sometimes it’s offensive to call it anything else with some chicks. For me, it’s a huge turn off calling it that, just reading what I wrote is grossing me out. I don’t think any guy ever likes saying..making love. Where did that start, and
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Can real love exist when you’ve never met?
Hey guysneedhelp, just a quick question. I have been talking with a girl I met on Facebook for about 3 months. She’s a friend of a friend from years ago. We started talking because we seemed to have similar comments on a mutual friends posts. We then started talking more and more. We now talk everyday, several
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Is your first love the one you fell the hardest for?
After 13 years I still think about her! What is it about a persons first love that makes it so special? I’m 30 and I still…..think about my first serious girlfriend back when I was 17. Is this a normal thing? Do many people still have feelings for that very first love?
Will she really leave her husband for me?
So Facebook is a big trouble-maker for me. I have been talking to my ex from high-school for almost a year. Every night we fall asleep on Facebook chat, talking about whatever. She says that she loves me and that she wants to leave her husband. He is wicked cold to her, and they have
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Do girls prefer tall guys?
Ladies, how important in your attraction to guys is height? Be honest. Do you need to be able to lay your head on his shoulder or does it even matter at all? I’ve heard that girls hate it when they can’t wear high heels if it makes them taller than him. Whats the truth?
Why do girls go to strip clubs?
Ladies- the guys have been to more than a few strip-clubs over that last few years and we often see a group of guys with a lone girl tagging along with them . Why would a girl go to a strip club with a bunch of guys? Also why would a couple go to a
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Double dating-Why do girls go to the restroom together?
On an evening out with the ladies we guys find ourselves all the sudden staring at each other as all the women group up and retreat to the restroom. What are girls talking about in there, why do they go in groups like this? What are they talking about?
Can geeky guys be hot?
With the age of technology growing more and more every year-are girls finally choosing brains over brawn? The intelligent computer genius dudes of today stand a far better chance of succeeding financially long-term over just muscles and a pretty face. So the big question is, are the ladies starting to find nerds more appealing than in
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Is a gold digger the same as a prostitute?
In this guys opinion being a gold digging girl is even worse than a hooker. A hooker is brave, she goes out into almost certain danger and sleeps with strangers. She knows her life could be at risk at any moment. A gold digger is usually a super hot chick that seduces men of power
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Do girls today prefer guys with really white teeth?
Should guys think about bleaching their teeth if they are going to get back in the dating game? I’m 40 and single again. If I’m going to start dating again do I need to make sure I have a super white smile? In the early 90′s having less than white teeth wasn’t a big deal.
She’s saving herself for marriage!
Okay-need advice. The girl I am with is 27, and “saving herself for marriage.” She’s never had sex, meanwhile I am much more experienced. I’m friggin dying while she seems to be having no problem with waiting. It’s been 8 months…!! I am really interested in her, but it’s weird for me that we haven’t had
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What is the best pickup line?
What can a guy say to a girl at a crowded bar to actually get her attention and truly engage her in conversation-without looking like a jerk who’s just looking to get laid?
Can a guy tame a party girl?
emailed in: This chick is soo hot and we are good friends, but shes a huge party girl. She can drink like a man, and loves to get high. Even so, I really like her, I want to be more than friends with her, but some of my guys are sayin I should stay away because she’s
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Are there any girls that like Super Heroes?
Emailed in from Seth: I just saw Green Lantern and I loved It!!!!!! So my question to all women out there is this: For real, are there any girls that like this stuff? Do any girls like Super-Hero stuff? Or am I doomed to be single forever… lol
Why do girls wear too much makeup?
In my opinion it’s getting out of control!!! Myself and plenty of my guy friends all think girls wear way too much makeup! Girls, you are beautiful with your naked face! We want to see the real you! It creates this paranoid cycle where you are afraid to let people see you without your make
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Do girls lie about having boyfriends?
I met a girl that’s incredibly beautiful and we had an amazing connection right from the start. We talked all evening, but for some reason I never really asked her if she had a boyfriend. She said she wasn’t married, so I assume that’s true, but it was never really clear to me throughout our
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Shes hanging out with her gay friend-again!
I have been trying to hang out with this certain someone for the past two weeks but she is always hanging with a gay friend of hers for “girls night”!!! Why is it that some women are hanging out with gay guys instead of guys that are interested in them and want more than a
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Bi-girls? Hype-or do they really exist?
Bisexual Girls- We guys see it all the time in the movies, and hear this and that from friends, you go to a club and chicks are grinding on each-other,making out..but is there really such a thing as bi-girls? Is it mostly chicks wanting attention and we guys just play into it so much that they
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Yup I’m asking about size!
So if any ladies feel like being blunt and open, does size matter? What matters about it? I mean, girth, length, shape, trimmed or not..? Does any of that matter, if someone lacks in one area, can he make it up in another? Whats the truth?
I have a bad past- when do I tell her?
Okay, I have a past.. a bad one… I’ve been seeing this girl, and i really like her. However I have some bad shit in my past, when do i, or do i tell her? Any chance I can keep my past, in the past?
Why do girls talk about their periods?
Why do women feel the need to tell us about their period? It seems like every month she tells me “I’m starting tomorrow” like I want to know. What is the reasoning behind this?
Is it sometimes OK?
She told me that it was fine, she was horny and wanted to have sex with me, but she was drunk and I had only had 2 beers. We were in a pool and the mood was perfect but she was way more intoxicated than me. I declined to have sex with her and she
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One penis for the rest of your life?
Is it the same for girls ( or some gay men ) as it is for many guys when they are getting married? Do they worry about the fact that they might only have sex with one guy…until they die? Is it possible that only guys think this way? When a girl finds her Mr.
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5 Fictional Men She Wishes You Were Like
According to a survey in the new book The Normal Bar, 29 percent of women say it bothers them “a lot” that their partner isn’t more romantic. That could be why many girlfriends and wives flock to theother men in their lives—fictional characters like Mr. Darcy, Dr. McDreamy, and Christian Grey—to get their romance fix. from Mens
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College girl broke my tongue story
It’s college, I’m new to all this. It’s my first year. I met a really hot dark haired girl from Texas at a party the other night. It was late, she invited me to her apartment. All her roommates where making out with shadowy random dudes in various places throughout the place. We were on
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Why do girls post sexy pics of themselves?
Rough numbers suggest that pornography makes up about 50% of the entire internet of today. Of the top 10 most visited websites in the world for 2012, two of them are pornographic. Taking all that into consideration, over 95% percent of all of this stuff is featuring women, and is intended to please male
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Guy’s don’t like dating girls who have cats
It’s gross, for me, it says that she’s lonely and that she thinks that she may end up growing old with these feline friends. I know alot of guys who get suspicious if a girl lives alone and has cats.. It can be a real romance killer if after a date or two we end
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Misadventures in Pole Dancing
Head the Warning: I have wanted to learn pole dancing for a very long time. And a few years ago, I came close to starting my journey. Here is that story. I saw on Oprah a show about learning to pole dance to spice up your relationship. My first thought was “Forget the relationship. I
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Is there really a guy code?
I keep hearing girls ask about it, off the top of my head here is a post about the guy code. The guy code is an unwritten set of laws that all guys instinctively know and understand. Breaking the guy code goes against the natural order and opens the offender up to retaliation. It’s similar to
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Girls don’t like nice guys-my mom says
Emailed in : from Juan Hey guys, so I have been seeing my girlfriend for about six months now and I brought her home to meet my parents for the first time the other night. I’m Latino, and she’s a really, really white girl from Michigan. I’m easy going, and she’s..well not. She knows what
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The Famous Crazy VS Hot Scale- is it real?
The Crazy Hot Scale is Real!! Guys have known about the scale for years, but none have ever spelled it out like this. AS SEEN ON HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER. Barney: A girl is allowed to be crazy as long as she is equally hot. Thus, if she’s *this* crazy, she has to be
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I hit my wife and I wish I could take it back.
emailed in Hey guysneedhelp, so I found out that my wife was sort of sexting a guy from her home town for the last 6 months. I confronted her after I had been drinking. We have been together for 5 years. Somehow I lost my head and I hit her with an open hand across
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Why are girls almost never nerdy?
We have heard this a lot over the last year! Thousands of guys claim to want girls that are quote “nerdy” this pretty much means they like Sci-fi, and Fantasy, Comics, and Gaming. I think that covers it, the problem is that girls are almost never nerdy..I don’t know why it just is. So the
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Well crap-my wife cheated on me.
Hey guysneedhelp, My wife and I have been married for 12 years. I first suspected that she was being unfaithful months ago, but I respected her privacy, and kept my distance. She was way too interested in those texts, I knew it was some guy. I was awake late at night a week ago or
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Happy New Year!!
Guys- what are you going to do different in 2013 in your dating or relationship life?
Women’s sex drive increases after 40.
Ever since I turned 40 I have been soo horny… I just want to have sex……I don’t want love, I don’t want a relationship, I just want to have sex…I don’t care with who.. As a woman who has been married for 15 years that can cause issues. However, that doesn’t change anything. Guys watch out! When girls
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I’m 35 and looking back- Snoop Doggy Dogg lied to me!
I was caught up in the gangsta rap craze of the 90′s. I tried to be hardcore, and awesome… I ended up with 2 kids from 2 different girls, and they both took all my money…. I hope guys today are more respectful of their own lives and the lives of women in general. Snoop
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